So this is it.
As you may have sensed, I've grown weary of blogging. It's not you; it's me. After three long years of being Mrs. Dub, I'm ready to move on to a different medium. I'm hoping to use the time I spent blogging on other writing projects and/or professional thumb wrestling.
I've been overwhelmed, touched, inspired and supported by all of you. I am truly humbled that any of you, particularly strangers, have wanted to read my nonsensical ramblings. Thanks for all your comments, emails and packages. The latter two are still encouraged.
I don't know if this is goodbye forever; I'm too fickle to commit to that. But I do need a break and it could be a long one. I already contribute to a private family blog and may consider creating a private one for friends with photos and occasional updates. We'll see. I just know that it's not that fun for me any more, and that's all that matters.
I've found a lot of joy and creative release from blogging. It helped me through some hard times, improved my writing and allowed me to chronicle my motherhood experience. But I'd be lying if it's all positive. I have an increasing feeling that there is too much noise on the Internet, and I've made the decision to be one less sound. There are scores of wittier writers out there, and I'd rather see you spend your time there. Better yet, I'd like to see us outside or on the floor with our kids.
Good luck to all of you with your lives and endeavors. I'll be checking your blogs on occasion, though I'm hoping to distance myself from my computer in general in the coming year. Time to work on my shorthand.
Merry Christmas, Happy Easter and good luck with that one thing!
p.s. I'm 10 weeks pregnant. Maybe it's the hormones?
p.p.s. No, you can't talk me out of it.
24 December 2008
With love, Mrs. Dub
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I'm so sad! Although I'm mostly a lurker, I've found you so inspirational and funny- usually in the same post =) Good luck in all you do.
Congrats on the pregnancy!! I'm excited for you. And I can understand needing a break from blogging. Hope you have a wonderful Christmas!
This is your Christmas present to me, what? No fair. It's like getting coal.
The blogging world will not be the same. What will I do without your HTTs and your wit and wisdom? I always laugh at everything you write and am (usually) nodding my head in agreement and wondering, "Why didn't I think to say it like that?"
I wish you the best and hope you can relax and take care of your body and that little baby growing inside of you. And I'll be wondering what cute Target clothes you purchased for Miss Dub and whether you moved to the cute little house.
One last request: a list of Mrs. Dub's favorite blogs so that we can have something else to read???
Merry Christmas Mrs. Dub and family.
i'll miss you! congratulations and best wishes on your pregnancy. i hope you'll check in once in a while - i'll be thinking of you and your family and wondering how things are going. merry christmas!
Ah, good news and bad news. I'm very happy for the good, sad for the bad. You will be missed!!!
You will be missed! I am a total stranger, but have enjoyed your writing -- laughed and cried -- and wish you the best. I think we can all take some time away from the computer. I know I sure can.
CONGRATS on the pregnancy. 2009 is going to be a great year for you and your family! ;)
Congratulations on being pregnant! I hope all goes well. I will miss reading your blog, even though I only commented once (I think). Have a great Christmas! Tell your family here in AZ I said hello.
Congrats on the pregnancy.
Tuesdays will not be the same.
Darn! I just found you today too :) Congrats on the pregnancy! Wish you the best! Merry Christmas!
Ahhhh, congratulations!!! Pretty sad that you're leaving. I also wonder if you're moving into cute house. Thanks for sharing your lives with us, and I commend you for stepping away from the computer and following your heart.
Good luck in all that you do!
Amber
Ummm... speechless here; it does seem to me that you've made this threat before and managed to carry on a little longer...? Of course your points are all entirely valid and yes we all should be spending more time on more valuable things. But there are few whose writing is more witty than yours.
And congratulations! Yay!
Congratulations! I hope all goes well with the pregnancy. Enjoy your new pursuits whatever they may be.
Boo! ha! How said that there will be no Mrs. Dub to read!!! I haven't been an avid commenter, but I do get a kick out of your posts... And congratulations!!!!!! :-)
Oh darn, I just found you.
As sad as this is, I completely understand. You are making a difficult decision, and I admire you for that. It must be so hard! But congrats on being pregnant, and please if you can, post a picture of the baby when he/she is born! And good luck with your future endeavors, with writing, family and such. You are a wonderful woman and I am better for knowing you! (Even if it was just a little bit.)
Congrats on the new baby! I am very excited for you. Number 2 is as much fun or even more than number 1. I will miss hearing about your adventures...you were the first non-family blog I started reading so I am sad about your break from blogging, but it's totally understandable. Merry Christmas and best wishes!
Laurel
I've loved waking up to your blog posts greeting me like some morning brew. I'll miss your hilarity, but I can understand the need to break off. Good luck in everything, and congrats on your pregnancy! Merry Christmas!
I will miss my breakfast with you! Enjoy your new endevers and Congratulations on your new little one! I wish you loads of blessings in all you do!
Know that you have touched my life with your writing! Thank you. Merry Christmas!
Aww, I just started reading your blog! You are a great writer. Very funny and very honest. I don't find that very often - the honesty part. I really enjoyed reading your blog these last few weeks. But, I think most people understand. Like someone said already, we could all use some time away from the computer. And more time spent with our kiddoes or families or other priorities.
Merry Christmas and good luck with everything.
Congratulations on your pregnancy! How fantastic! I hope that you are feeling okay.
With all of these people that "just found you" or haven't met you, I feel so honored to actually know you. And I am talking from WAY back! :) It has been so fun to read your blog and get to know you even better the past few years. Hopefully your big sis and mom will occasionally give us updates on you so that we can still know what's going on. Or just invite the B* sisters to whatever new, private blog you create!!
Merry Christmas!
i'm sad to see you go, but i understand. i hope you didn't feel pressure from your readers, with my room somewhere blog, sometimes i feel like i have to blog to keep the readers coming, but in the end, who really cares. it's all about you, and if it's not fun anymore, you shouldn't do it. i still love blogging, but i can imagine that one day i'll be tired of it. maybe when the kids aren't cute anymore. :)
so happy for your babyness, best of luck. and i expect an invite if you do a private dealie. merry christmas!!
yay! not about the demise of your blog, but about your new little babe. oh, i'm so happy for you.
Yay for the new pregnancy. I am so happy for you! I'll certainly miss reading your blog. You inspired me to start a public blog of my own, though I haven't really started posting yet...lol.
Thank your for sharing Miss Dub and baby Zee with us. You are an inspiration. It's so refreshing to read about a mom who is honest about how things really are. Drop by my blog sometimes.
My prayers are with you for a wonderful, uneventful pregnancy and a healthy, happy baby.
Merry Christmas!
yes! more dub babies. i will miss the internet you, although i hope that the void will be filled by us being neighbors ...or even roommates again.
you are my blogging mentor--since you literally set mine up and redesigned it twice.thank you for giving me the outlet you described. it is very healing.
it's a sad day for the blogging world, but a great day for you especially if you aren't enjoying it anymore. way to go!
love you, lu. see you soon?
Congratulations!!!! I'm so happy for your baby news. And I'm also happy for your bravery to quit. Of course you'll be missed, but I feel the exact same way you do. Merry Christmas to you & your family. Love you all!
my mornings will never be the same. good thing as the bff, i still get to see pics of you and the little miss.
whaoo! not that you are leaving us, but for your absolutely wonderful news! i'll miss you, but i definitely understand. hope all is wonderful!
Congrats friend. Let me know where (if anywhere) you land on the 'net -- I'd love to stay in the loop on your life.
Congratulations! I look forward to HTT every week, and I have loved hearing what all of your readers have to say on the topic. Best of luck with your pregnancy, and I do hope you'll pop on every now and then and let us know how things are going.
Congrats on expecting again. I pray for the best. I'll miss your blog posts, but obviously you have to do what's best for you. Merry Christmas.
Congrats on the pregnancy! Thanks for your wit every morning. You inspired me to write more and work on my writing skills in general. I've never liked writing until I read your blog and saw how enjoyable it can be, not only for myself, but for others to read. Thanks again for the fun and God bless you and your growing family.
I'm 10 weeks pregnant too! And I have a two year old that is going to be a big sister also. But Shhhh... I'm just telling strangers. Hope everything goes well with your pregnancy and blogging recovery.
CONGRATS! (on the baby part). I'm getting off the computer and calling you right this second.
I am one of those strangers who checks your blog everyday, and I will miss you. But I applaud you for doing what you gotta do! And congrats on the pregnancy! Best wishes.
such mixed emotions, my dear mrs. dub - i will miss your blog terribly but am thrilled with your baby news - praying for you and hugs - happy christmas!
Thank you for two years of enjoyment and congrats on the pregnancy!
i'm smiling from ear to ear at the news of another little dub. :) huge congrats!
and i completely hear you on the blogging thing. it's fun. it's an outlet. but it kind of gets exhausting (or something like that). but for the record, i'm so glad you've had a blog and that i've been reading it. i never ever doubted mr. dub got a good one, but it's been so awesome to see firsthand how truly great you are. thank you for sharing your experiences and your thoughts on life over the last couple years. but alas, farewell mrsdub.com... email it is. :)
and merry christmas!
I join others by saying I will miss you. I've given up on most blogs (including my own), but still check into mrsdub.com for a humorous reality check.
I wish the best for you and your growing family.
Love,
Teresa in CA
WHAT!!!!? I am going to miss checking in, blogworld will not be the same. and Congratulations!!!!I am so excited for another adoptive glamchild!!!!!
Wittier blogs, you say? I'm with whatever other commenter who said she'd like to have a list of said worth-while blogs! I only read yours and c-jane's, and don't have time to "surf" around looking for more I like. Your recommendations would be greatly appreciated!
Congrats and good luck!
ahhh, mrs dub. there are very few witty writers that i enjoy as much as you. i love that you never take things too seriously. you have filled a niche in my daily blog checking and you will be greatly missed. but, at the same time, i'm proud of you. it feels good to take a break from the www (whether temporary or forever) and i wish you the best in all that comes along in your life. crossing my fingers for that little fetus of yours! congrats!!
WOOHOO! I am so excited for you:) Rest, rest and rest some more! Miss Dub and Dora can be good friends. She will not be scarred for life. Seriously, best wishes and I will pray for you!
MERRY CHRISTMAS! I will miss your blog:(
bummer...i just found you:) i know what you mean about there being too much "noise" on the internet and sometimes it just feels overwhelming. and if it's not fun anymore it's good to take a break. congratulations on your pregnancy! i didn't blog much when i was pregnant either, because quite frankly the mere sight of my computer made me sick! i'll keep checking back every once in awhile. a couple of your posts made me laugh so hard i almost peed myself;) and staying at home with three kids, i really need that sometimes!!!
Hey, congratulations! Best of all to you.
Congratulations! Please keep in touch.
Congratulations on the new baby. And, while disappointing about the blog ending, good on you for putting your family and self first. I'm an obscure government worker who stumbled upon your blog through the wonders of the Internet and bad key strokes and have been addicted since. I even sought out the allusive cider drink at the book store (see your October (?) blog) when I was in Chicago for a meeting just to see if they did sell it! You're smart, funny and i wish I knew someone in Chicago to recommend hire you. Keep strong and happy while that baby is growing and consider one last blog about your holiday travel adventure and Miss Dub's Christmas morning antics! And, did you move in to the wonderful house? You deserve all good things. God speed.
I've stopped by time to time, and I totally agree with you! I had a friend that also made a choice to end her blog and focus on other/better things in her life. Good luck to you and your family!
I have never commented on your blog before, but have read EVERY post that you have made. I found your blog through links on another friend's blog. I have enjoyed everything you have to say. I love when you have posts about you and your family. You describe them so well. I will truly be saddened that you will not be posting. This is the one blog I could count on to be continuously updated.
A sincere congratulations on the pregnancy! You truly deserve this. I am very excited for you and your family.
Thank you.
What the What?
Okay,okay I knew this day would come. I love to read your blog because it makes me laugh out loud - a lot. We will just have to see more of each other.
Love your pregnant belly.
Love you!
Rach
I think you're an incredibly talented writer and that is why I love your blog. Good luck with your pregnancy and new adventures. I, too, am vowing to spend less time on the computer this year--maybe my butt will be less flat-a girl can dream.
Quitter!
P.S. Can I have all your readers???
Thanks.
I feel profoundly happy for your upcoming baby and wish for you a perfectly normal, trauma free experience.
I have loved your blog. But I totally understand about making a little less noise. Totally.
best wishes--
in Kansas
OMG OMG OMG!! YAY!! CONGRATULATIONS MRS DUB!!!! That's soooo exciting! I think I'm coming over to your mom's tonight! I'll give you a big hug then! :D
On another sad note... I'm super sad that you're gonna leave your blog, but it is totally understandable. It's not like I write a blog everyday :P I'll just continue to follow along on the family blog :P
i'm going to miss you so much. congrats on the baby, and if it's not too much trouble, could you email me every once in a while to tell me how you are doing, especially during this pregnancy. you can still check out my progres on my blog, but please keep in touch. i just care so flippin much about you! take good care of yourself and your little family. :)
It has been such fun.
Thanks!
You will remain on my Google Reader in case you ever change your mind.....
Congrats on the baby news! I'm actually 10 week pregnant as well. I wish you the best and admire you greatly. Thanks for all the good reading.
I'll miss ya Missus! Congrats on the pregnancy. Do take it easy! I understand the need for a blogger break... I started mine in October and I'm having a hard time even thinking about getting back into it. Not sure what the remedy for that is yet?
You know what....i too have come to similar conclusions for myself, so i completely understand. Thanks for all you've shared, CONGRATULATIONS on the coming sweet baby, and God bless you in finding things that fulfill your needs and give you satisfaction.
See, in a way this is good. Now i'll be motivated to go find someone else witty to hang out with in person, and then maybe i'll be one less person in America bowling alone. :)
Boo hoo! I became hooked on your blog after your guest post on designmom. Crossing my fingers that you are only taking a break, and not permanantly breaking up with the blog world. Although, I completely understand how the management of a toddler and a baby is enough some days (right there with ya).
Congrats on the tiniest Dub - best to you during your pregnancy (and beyond).
I guess I will 'catch up' on your old posts when I need a good laugh. :)
We would be such good blog friends, especially because I just love me some good parentheses too. (Really, I do).
I stumbled on your blog just a few short months ago but have gotten so much enjoyment out of it. I will miss reading your thoughts and comments about life in general. You have a fabulous wit and sense of humor--and you have given me a chance to laugh often in just a short time. Good luck to you--find a way to write if you can, you have a gift and thank you for sharing it with us. Congratulations on your pregnancy and all the best to you in the future.
You will be missed!! Congratulations on the pregnancy! That's so exciting!
wow. good for you. I think you are amazing and hope all goes well as you lessen the noise in your life and welcome the noise of more babies!!
have a great life!!
Bummer for me! Congrats to you! If you decide to come back to the blogging fold, I'll be eager to read what you've been up to!
SERIOUSLY!??
That's not fair.
I just found your blog.
I will now go and saulk.
Okay all done.
Still mad, but oh well!
Congrats on your pregnancy!
I wish I had your gift to have people want to read what I write. I just started reading, and am sad to hear you're leaving. Good luck! I have 4 kiddo's and they bring you more joy than anything.
Hey please send me your email address so we can keep in touch. Seriously, you need to keep writing. Be it a column or even a book. If you choose the latter, hopefully we can work together someday. Please keep in touch!
I will miss you! I am very sorry that I am just now learning of this when I went to do MTT. Many hugs and congrats on the new upcoming little one.
BTW When I was reading your p.s.'s I wondered why I would want to talk you out of being 10wks, then I smacked my hand to my forehead. Duh, she meant the blog.
Many hugs!
Congratulations!
You'll be greatly missed.
OK, so you put into words exactly why I quit my blog! Amen to more important things. However, I am sad. I want to be Mrs. D when I grow up to be a writer. Good luck!
Brittany
Thanks for all your well wishes and support. I expected a little more protest, so apparently I'm not as popular as I thought ...
But seriously, we didn't get the cute house. Long story, but I was worried about a strange collection of home videos the owner stored in the basement. Now, we have one week to find a place. I'm sure it will be lovely.
The pregnancy is chugging along, intense pukes and all, and is looking great. I feel totally calm and confident about it, except for general pregnancy paranoia.
Oh, and I don't miss the blog. I know! I really think I made the right decision for me.
Best of luck to you all!
Thank you, Mrs. Dub. Since stumbling upon "Musings and Misadventures," I have loved reading what's been on your mind. Although I've never commented before, I'd like to wish you well in 2009 with a healthy pregnancy! Your heartfelt posts on Baby Zee was one "voice" helped me through my own tough times. For that, I am very grateful. You will be missed!
I am sad.. but happy for you... congratulations and have a happy life:)
Congrats on your pregnancy! Your blog became a daily read for me. I'll miss it dearly!
Good luck to you!!!
Fellow chicagoan.....Jen
PS I would have protested if I thought it would do any good. Your voice just had this dreadful finality. Hope all is well.
I've been meaning to leave you a comment for weeks now; I've got to work on my procrastination...
Anyway, just wanted to say "Congratulations" on your pregnancy and thanks for all the great posts.
I'm going to miss my daily dose of Mrs.Dub each morning.
Hi there,
I just found this blog today after searching for "Dr. Furman Ear Infections." As a new blogger I respect the fact that you knew your time limits and took a step back to evaluate. Good for you.
Since you are pregnant, you might be interested in checking out my blog about nutrition and preconception, pregnancy, and childhood. www.BeyondPrenatals.com
Feel free to write to me about guest posting if you want to write about your pregnancy.
Pregnancy is an amazing time, I hope you enjoy it.
Debra
I can totally understand you in terms of wanting a break. I like blogging because it allows me to pour out my creative juices, but it can really be challenging especially when you feel that you have given it your all. Take your long break, and I wish everything will work out well for you.
i miss you.
to echo "mrs. r", i miss you too.
Hey Mrs. Dub... I just barely read that you have decided to give blogging a rest. I just wanted to say thanks for all the laughs and inspiration too! And Congrats on the pregnancy! I hope it goes swimmingly.
I miss you, Mrs. Dub! I started to visit your blog after your guest spot on Design Mom, and how your writing brightened my online reading each day! I hope you'll consider positing a Baby Dub update sometime. Congratulations!
Oh how I miss Mrs. Dub! My days just are not the same without your musings and misadventures. I was hoping more exercusions to Target would fill the void (like I was channeling your wit), but alas, no.
Can you be bribed to blog?!
I hope you are happy and enjoying life. Congrats on your bundle o' love.
This morning when I turned on my computer I thought to myself, "Now what is it that I always do on Tuesday mornings?" Still not accustomed to the absence of HTT, apparently! I hope you are feeling well and that things are progressing nicely and normally with your pregnancy. Have a great week!
just checking.
it's still true.
sad.
I just read your article/blurb in the Eliza magazine...and it reminded me to come to your blog.
You really weren't kidding.
Can you at least come back and tell use how the pregnancy is going? I really miss your HTT.
At least I'm not the only one that keeps checking, hoping, wishing.
May God Bless You & your family
I keep checking too. This was my favorite blog. =/
Come back to us.
I'll give you a cookie.
:)
How are you doing?
I just was thinking... I miss Mrs. Dub! Hope things are going well (this is a friend of your sister's, sister.) I know confusing!
Just thinking about you today. I know I could just as easily send you an email... but I wanted to come and visit the ol' blog for the memories. ;)
I check frequently in hopes that there will be a new update...but alas, nothing.
I hope all is well with you and your family!
every once in awhile i check. your a literary genius. hope the pregnancy is going well.
really? still not back yet?
Congrats on the new little one. She's gorgeous!!!
Still sad you're gone :(
where oh where are you mrs dub? come back, please...
seriously. it's almost a year now. come back already.
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